Before joining Blaire's dating boot camp, I was very anxious about dating and finding the One.  I felt very lost and unsure about what the right things to do were and what I should or shouldn't be doing.  Now I feel much more confident, calm, and at ease.  I KNOW I will find the One and I don't have to settle for less than a perfect match for me.  I love knowing that I don't have to go out with any more guys that I am less than totally excited about! 

The support I received from Blaire and the other boot camp participants was amazing. It was invaluable to hear their experiences and know that I am not alone! 

Each week's exercises seemed to bring out a major realization about myself that added week to week to the transformation I have made into a much more confident happy person who is prepared for that amazing relationship!

If you have questions about my experience with the boot camp, feel free to email Blaire for my contact information."

Karen D, Tampa FL

UPDATE FROM KAREN:

1 Month after this Boot Camp Ended...

"I have found The One! Now I am going out on a limb a bit to say that ...but it's just so great I can't help it.  I have never found someone I am so well matched with.

We have so many things in common and are so in sync on everything it's insane. We even have the same birthday!

We want the same things in life (marriage, kids). AND the chemistry is unbelievable. I keep wanting to pinch myself because it's hard for me to believe that I finally found him after all this time.

I know that working with Blaire and doing the Boot Camp has definitely played a part in how I attracted him. For one thing, I made a realization during the Boot Camp that I had been attracting guys who were emotionally unexpressive. I believe the time I took to really connect with myself and become The One for myself helped me to turn that around.

And, this new guy of mine is definitely not emotionally unexpressive. Our communication is amazing. I know he feels the same about me because he tells me! So we're both really excited to see where this goes. We are planning a trip together this summer (maybe NYC!) and lots of other fun things!!

As I'm writing this, it occurs to me that it sounds like an ad or something! But it's all true!!

So a big thank you, thank you, thank you to you, Blaire!!!   Also, I had another incredible amazing date with him last night and we have lots of fun plans this weekend. We have so much fun together and feel so good around each other.  It really is like you have said - it's easy and it just flows!"

PS:  I just heard from Karen that she's moving in with her man in a few months!  Congrats Karen!

"I joined the dating boot camp because I was feeling worried about my difficulty finding "the one."  This experience has been such a revelation for me.  I learned so much about myself, digged up my fears, and created a new vision for my life.  I also am grateful for the opportunity to connect with other women who were learning and growing along with me.  Thanks Blaire for guiding me during this empowering journey!

Thank you!"

Marina, 31, NJ

“Blaire, you have brought inspiration to my life.  6 months ago I finally found the One!  Thank you for you for being you and having the courage to share your life with others.  You really don’t know how many souls you touch.”

 - LW, 20s, Philadelphia

“Blaire has really  become my very own “Love Guru”!  Our private coaching sessions have changed my love life from dull to fabulous!  She’s inspiring, intelligent & always there to help me find my way in love.  I know I’m so much closer to true love than ever before, thanks to Blaire.”

 - Mary, 20s, Baltimore

"When I signed up for Blaire's Dating Strategies Boot Camp I was just out of a long term relationship and before that was married for 23 years.  My last relationship was wonderful, the best I'd had, except for his "controlling" issues.  I joined Blaire's Boot Camp because I was entering a new stage of my life where I am about to think about me!  (my kids are all grown up and out of the house).  I was also feeling frustrated with dating, being let down, and having a hard time meeting guys that are available.

Blaire's Boot Camp was a great experience.  I had never focused on what I really want.  What I want from a man and what I want from a relationship.  I've gotten very clear on all these things and it's been great to have all the information that Blaire gave me when I go on the dates and go through the online experience.  I've been meeting men in my neighborhood and men online and have been more proactive with giving my number and taking theirs.  It's been fun.

My online profile is really good now.  The information I learned in the Boot Camp with what to put in my profile has been so helpful.  I never knew what to write before, where to post my profile and how to attract the best quality guys.  I never knew about speed dating and what to say to the men in the 5 minutes you have to talk to them.  Now I have a step by step process to follow of what I talk to men about and how to decide whether they are good for me or not.

A big thing that really impacted me was learning what to look for when I'm on a date with a guy, from the beginning, to look for specific things that tell me if he's a good fit for me, and if they're not good to have the strength to move on.

That is a big thing for me, to have the strength in a relationship to walk away if the guy is not a match. 

 - Claudia, 49, California

“I really enjoyed your (Prepare Yourself for Love) CD.  I completed it and am going back through it again.  What you taught me was very freeing and helpful.   Thank you!”

– Erin, Age 30 , Seattle

“After a recent breakup I felt lost and unsure about everything.  I was miserable.  A friend who had used some of Blaire’s other products told me about “Embracing A Breakup".  I bought it and listened right away.  I started to do the exercises and after a week or two I really started to feel better.  I learned that there were lessons in this breakup that I could use to make my life better.  I recovered from the breakup and am ready for my next relationship.   I feel ready for a better relationship too.” 

- Kathy, 40-something, Baltimore

"I have never really dated. I would just meet a guy, there would be an attraction, and we would start a relationship and be together until it was over. That has been my experience with dating.

I never had any criteria to go by. I would just go strictly according to my emotions. I would always get emotionally attached and physically involved way too quickly. None of the relationships I engaged in were healthy or right from me. I never thought about what I wanted or what I needed in a relationship.

When I was with someone it was all about them. What they liked, needed, and wanted. Always looking to please and be pleasing. That put me in a victim situation where I was allowing myself to be controlled, disrespected, treated very poorly, and just accepted whatever I got. I really did not know any better.

Most of the time I was very unhappy and unfulfilled and the relationship usually left me confused and heartbroken. After my last relationship which left me completely depleted, drained and disheartened I decided it was time to take a break and start working on myself. After a considerable amount of time I felt I was ready to give myself a chance to see if I can find and create a healthy, happy, fulfilling relationship. However, this time I wanted to do things completely different. I wanted to take time to date and figure out what I wanted and needed in a relationship. I knew I needed to acquire some new knowledge and a new set of skills.

Enter – Blaire Allison’s Dating Strategies Boot Camp (6 Weeks to Scoop em, Screen em, and Weed em). I have been receiving e-mails for sometime from Blaire so I was familiar with what she has been doing. When I came across this Dating Boot Camp it intrigued me. I felt as if this could be the tool I needed to equip me with the proper information that I needed to jumpstart my new dating strategy.

In a nutshell; Blaire has given me the tools to take my power back and put me in the driver’s seat of my life. I have gained so much awareness about myself going through the exercises each week. I gained clarity about who I am, what I like, and what I have to share and bring to a relationship.

I learned that I have control over who I want to choose in my life and get involved with. That being specific about the traits you are looking for in a mate is very important.  To look at a first meeting as just that, two people meeting to see if they have enough in common to meet again. Don’t waste time, don’t settle. If there is nothing there for you move on.

I learned that it is important to stay focused on my goals and what I want in my life and in my relationship.  Most importantly I learned that it does not matter what a guy looks like, what he does or what he has. I want to be treated well. If a guy does not treat me with respect and honor his word than I will not continue to date him. 

Thank you Blaire"

- Debi NYC

"I wanted to tell you about something that is happening in my life which is so amazing.   I have fallen deeply in like with the guy who was the subject of our coaching call!!!!  I ended up having that conversation with him, inspired by that ("How To Ask for What You Want, Need, or Wonder About In A Relationship) teleseminar on how to speak up to a guy. And his response was really good.   He was so happy that I was able to be upfront and straightforward with him.   He had no idea he was giving off "not interested" vibes because he was totally interested.  Long story short, we ended up establishing great communication because of it and have been blissfully happy ever since.

I know that it is very early in this relationship but I just know that he is just as honest, open, and sincere as I am,  and I can't imagine that we would stop dating any time soon. We both know what we want and have talked about it.   We both agreed that we want to date exclusively and see where it goes. Weeeee!!!
Ever since I had the "talk" with him, he has been so communicative and ALWAYS calls when he says he will, etc."

Karen D, Tampa FL

UPDATE:  Karen has a vacation set for this summer to visit her man's family up north and the two of them are planning on moving in together in the fall!  Congrats Karen!  So happy for you!

Blaire,

I really enjoyed your Prepare Yourself for Love CD and Ebook.  Before I got it I was feeling in the dumps about men.  I was having many first dates, that never lead to second dates.   I couldn't understand why and it hurt me to keep having failure.  After going through your CD and all the exercises I realized that the men I was going out on dates with weren't even the type of guy I see myself with, instead I was just settling to have some companionship.  I have never heard anything like what you speak of and now I see that it works.  I started on my first exercise the other day and wrote tons of pages and pages in my journal - and am still writing!  I feel so excited and I know I'm going to meet him.  I can just feel him every time I read through my notes.  I'm so excited to get to the treasure map.  I will keep you posted.  Thank you so very much.  You really helped me feel a whole lot better and look at dating completely differently.  Thank you!"

Julie, 28, Boston

Blaire:

I love these audios and ebook - they're really great!  I'm so excited to feel the love!  I can just feel it!  I have a huge energy rush from listening - I'm not even done with it yet, but had to email you. I can actually visualize and feel "my" guy.  I am extremely confident I will meet my partner for life!  Thank you!

Lisa D, 44, NYC

"Before joining the Love Club I knew I needed to do something to change my attitude and outlook about dating and relationships. I was a little skeptical and thought the Club would be full of silly exercises and psycho babble (which definitely has it's place but I wasn't looking for it in the Love Club). It's not at all. I was pleasantly surprised to learn that the weekly exercises aren't so much about "How to get a date" as they are "how to lighten up, enjoy life more and be your most positive self." I really and truly believe that this new outlook and way of living will lead me to healthy, fun love with a special person."

Ashley, 39, New York City, NY